<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Aaron Chen Memorial Foundation]]></title><description><![CDATA[Aaron Chen Memorial]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2026 23:07:54 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Be Hurting, and Still Finish Strong]]></title><description><![CDATA[Ruoyun, Nov. 2, 2023 Aaron, this past Tuesday was Halloween. On the Halloween evening of last year, you were playing chess in a...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/be-hurting-and-still-finish-strong</link><guid isPermaLink="false">654647f22c6ebcafdbf3f3b5</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Nov 2023 14:13:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_f98f993e814a4a11baca6daac63236cf~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Li</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Run with Aaron (4)]]></title><description><![CDATA[On May 14, I ran my first 10K race after two months of training. Known as the Sporting Life 10K, it is an annual running event that helps...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/run-with-aaron-4</link><guid isPermaLink="false">646e2e41e38daab4890e268d</guid><pubDate>Wed, 24 May 2023 19:36:55 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_944d49741b39438699f3f3e83d886ecf~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ruoyun Bai</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Family (3): Li (and a letter inspired by ChatGPT)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Li and I have been married for over two decades. One reason for the longevity of our marriage is that the two of us rarely go crazy at...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/family-3-li-and-a-letter-inspired-by-chatgpt</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6447d24e56e26d2df471494b</guid><pubDate>Tue, 25 Apr 2023 15:34:58 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_f43845f2fbea45c0851d09f572e0ea40~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_756,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ruoyun Bai</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Writing with a Sense of Urgency! A Cure of Academic Procrastination? (Writing with Aaron (2)). ]]></title><description><![CDATA[This is mostly just an update about my efforts to fulfil my promise since I posted on February 28, 2023 (Writing for and with Aaron(1)....]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/writing-with-a-sense-of-urgency-a-cure-of-academic-procrastination-writing-with-aaron-2</link><guid isPermaLink="false">642f48e147f5458fe16d31a7</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Apr 2023 00:29:49 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_3b715a55c8134a04a27591da7984888e~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Li</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Run with Aaron (3)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Recently I was welcomed into a local marathon club and joined their weekly group run last Sunday. Most in the group are experienced...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/run-with-aaron-3</link><guid isPermaLink="false">642d81efc13f18e84c4b609d</guid><pubDate>Wed, 05 Apr 2023 14:18:27 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_28dfe2d6236f456eaf251a996273b339~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_580,h_384,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ruoyun Bai</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Family (2): Angelina]]></title><description><![CDATA[Last Saturday, I took Angelina to Ontario Science Centre for the first time. Though she’s excited about everything, we predictably ended...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/the-family-2-angelina</link><guid isPermaLink="false">64134584b593b98073bbff49</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 Mar 2023 17:05:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_ef4186c7abab42d09cd72ddcc84447f2~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_871,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ruoyun Bai</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[孩子，你在那儿还好吗？]]></title><description><![CDATA[你在那儿还好吗？ ---缅怀景义诗（1） 人人都说你是 纯洁可爱小天使， 因凡心偶动， 才降临到人世间； 带给我们欢声笑语， 快乐度过了十三年； 说是上帝因大慈爱， 把你赐给我们， 是最好最丰厚的恩典。   我们心中脑中的感觉， 你更像断线的风筝， 扶摇直上过了九天；...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/%E5%AD%A9%E5%AD%90%EF%BC%8C%E4%BD%A0%E5%9C%A8%E9%82%A3%E5%84%BF%E8%BF%98%E5%A5%BD%E5%90%97%EF%BC%9F</link><guid isPermaLink="false">640d44dde31991af17e4e107</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Mar 2023 03:28:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_29114fde809a4a5691714898ba59c33b~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Li</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Run with Aaron (2)]]></title><description><![CDATA[I made a new personal record last week by running a total of 50k over five days. The average time it takes for someone like me (woman,...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/run-with-aaron-2</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6407443f599c1c8631bd18df</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Mar 2023 00:07:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_b7a6ee9887964f5ca6336a5e79e610cf~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_621,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ruoyun Bai</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why and How to Grieve (2): Is Vulnerability  a Gift?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Among the numerous questions that I have lately been forced to ponder,  one is concerned about how we experience and express (and how we...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/understand-vulnerability-as-a-gift</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63fcd10a6edd81a16505f00d</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Mar 2023 16:24:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_b8875193c23c4d36a20c4f92badb3665~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Li</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[景义的家人(1)]]></title><description><![CDATA[景义的姥姥姥爷  景义(Aaron)的离世对我造成的震撼如此之大，以至于我完全忘记了我父母的悲痛和悲伤，直到我父亲在凌晨 1 点被救护车送往急诊室，接着在几天后，我母亲又在有点冰的街道上汽车时从自行车上摔了下来。虽然他们后来都确认并无大碍，但我才清醒地意识到父母现在比以往任...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/%E6%99%AF%E4%B9%89%E7%9A%84%E5%AE%B6%E4%BA%BA-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6402a11a70150579e7a04cab</guid><pubDate>Sat, 04 Mar 2023 02:18:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_0131328441054c4f97248ef8631b84cc~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ruoyun Bai</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Family (1)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Aaron’s Grandparents I was so stunned by Aaron’s death that I had been completely oblivious to my parents’ grief and sorrow until my...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/the-family-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">64027f6dc5f38af793d922a1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Mar 2023 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_0131328441054c4f97248ef8631b84cc~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ruoyun Bai</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Run with Aaron (1)]]></title><description><![CDATA[During our first meeting on January 31, 2023, less than three weeks after Aaron's passing, I told my grief therapist that I was about to...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/run-with-aaron-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63ff6256fb3cdc10d57a01a8</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 14:37:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_eb26ac1b93aa4da9b79598079438ef6b~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Ruoyun Bai</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[为景义(Aaron)著书，同景义著书]]></title><description><![CDATA[好吧，Aaron 的妈妈已经决定参加马拉松赛跑了并且已经开始训练几个星期了，她为了 Aaron 的缘故而跑的。考虑到 Aaron 这些年来和妈妈最为要好的这个因素，他妈妈事后表现出的坚强程度，远远超过了包括我自己在内的大多数的估计。...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/%E4%B8%BA%E6%99%AF%E4%B9%89-aaron-%E8%80%8C%E8%91%97%E4%B9%A6</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63feb3a39d8de271d890fae7</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 02:29:20 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_4a836dec153647bfb384b71da471e28c~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Li</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[一个哀悼，反思，分享和共勉的空间!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Purposes and Invitation]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/%E4%B8%80%E4%B8%AA%E5%93%80%E6%82%BC%EF%BC%8C%E5%8F%8D%E6%80%9D%EF%BC%8C%E5%88%86%E4%BA%AB%E5%92%8C%E5%85%B1%E5%8B%89%E7%9A%84%E7%A9%BA%E9%97%B4</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63feb67c5044e34d57357c6c</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 02:21:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_b627456529744e2b804f53441dc53d2f~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Li</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[为何需要以及应如何表达丧亲之痛？]]></title><description><![CDATA[Necessity and Ways of Grieving]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/%E4%B8%BA%E4%BD%95%E9%9C%80%E8%A6%81%E4%BB%A5%E5%8F%8A%E5%BA%94%E5%A6%82%E4%BD%95%E8%A1%A8%E8%BE%BE%E4%B8%A7%E4%BA%B2%E4%B9%8B%E7%97%9B%EF%BC%9F</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63fea90245f94601cb3a7f46</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2023 02:03:19 GMT</pubDate><enclosure 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Aaron's sake and she turns out...]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/write-for-aaron</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63fe43976828594f7a968d1a</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Feb 2023 19:11:09 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_c433477df73542efa033b168944aa5d7~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Li</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Emotional Self-Care]]></title><description><![CDATA[In the last month of Aaron's life, as the situation became progressively hopeless, I could no longer hold my tears in front of Aaron....]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/emotional-self-care</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63f8f1058b9b72807699fcf7</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2023 20:33:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_641a37a4662c4d27a4c8930b097cb390~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" 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(1)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Necessity and Ways of Grieving]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/why-and-how-do-we-grieve-the-loss-of-our-loved-ones</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63f8ca828c3a0824ba66294e</guid><pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2023 18:56:32 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_00aeef53e0c34c42ac92ab235f9a2541~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Li</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Space for Grieving, Reflecting, Sharing and Supporting!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Purposes and Invitation]]></description><link>https://www.aaronchenfoundation.org/post/grieving-reflecting-sharing-and-supporting</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63f6e8e91aa2c3e34958c966</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2023 04:39:36 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb6be3_b627456529744e2b804f53441dc53d2f~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Li</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>